What Are 10 Ways To Teach Manners To Teenagers And Children

​In today's fast-paced, digital world, teaching etiquette to children and teenagers is more important than ever.  Good manners and proper etiquette can significantly impact their social interactions, self-esteem, and future opportunities.  This blog delves into why etiquette matters, practical ways to teach it, and resources to help you along the way.
 
Why Etiquette Matters
Etiquette is more than just saying "please" and "thank you." It's about respect, consideration, and empathy towards others. Studies have shown that children who practice good manners are more likely to succeed socially and academically. According to a report by the National Education Association, children who learn social skills early tend to perform better in school and have healthier relationships throughout their lives.
 
Practical Ways to Teach Etiquette

• Model Good Behaviour: Children and teenagers learn by observing adults. Demonstrate politeness, patience, and respect in your daily interactions. Use phrases like "excuse me," "thank you," and "you're welcome" consistently.
• Set Clear Expectations: Explain the importance of etiquette and set clear expectations.  Discuss scenarios they might encounter, such as interacting with peers and teachers.
• Practice Makes Perfect: Role-playing can be a fun and effective way to practice etiquette.  Act out different situations, such as meeting someone new or dining at a restaurant.
• Encourage Empathy: Empathy is a cornerstone of good etiquette. Discuss feelings and encourage them to think about how others might feel in various situations.

 
What Age Should A Child Learn Manners
Quick Tips for Kids: For the Little Ones (Ages 5-10)

1. Magic Words: "Please," "Thank you," and "Excuse me" are markers of politeness. Make them a habit at home and praise your child for using them outside the house.
2. Table Manners: Start simple! Teach them to use their utensils correctly, how to set the table, and how to behave in ways such as eating at the table and helping after a meal.
3. Greetings: Encourage a friendly "hello" or "goodbye" when meeting new people or entering/leaving a room.
4. Sharing is Caring: This is a golden rule for playgrounds and friendships alike. Teach your child to take turns and share toys and games.
5. Showing Respect: Encourage polite greetings and introductions. Teach them to make eye contact, offer a firm handshake (when appropriate), and use titles (Mr., Mrs., Ms.) unless told otherwise.

​Quick Tips for Kids: For the Teenagers (Ages 11-18)

1. Phone Etiquette: The digital world has its own manners! Encourage your teen to silence their phone and place it in another room during meals so they can fully connect and be present.
2. Social Media Savvy: The online world can be harsh. Teach teens to be respectful and positive in their posts and comments, which will benefit them in the long and short term.
3. Conversations: Encourage them to make eye contact, listen attentively, and contribute to conversations by asking questions and listening to the answers.
4. Body Language: Remind teens to maintain good posture, be mindful of nonverbal cues, and avoid slouching crossed arms, and excessive fidgeting.
5. One Random Act of Kindness: It's something nice you do for someone without expecting anything in return. It could be as simple as holding the door open for someone or helping a friend with their homework.

 
In Review
Teaching etiquette to children and teenagers equips them with essential life skills. It's a continuous process that requires patience, consistency, and practice. By instilling good manners early, we help them build respectful, confident, and empathetic personalities that will serve them well throughout their lives.
 
By investing time in teaching etiquette, we're not just preparing our children to navigate social situations gracefully but fostering a generation that values respect and empathy, essential traits for a great future.
 
Resources for Teaching Etiquette
Digital Books, Online Courses & Etiquette Schools: Auersmont School of Etiquette and Protocol provide specialised programs for young people and digital workbooks for children and young people to work at their own pace.
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References
For further reading and resources, check out the following links:
National Education Association Report on Social Skills