​The world of etiquette is a constantly evolving landscape, adapting to the ever-changing social landscape. In today's digital age, a crucial aspect of modern manners revolves around how we conduct ourselves online, particularly on social media platforms.
 
Your Digital Footprint
Gone are the days when first impressions were solely based on in-person interactions. Today, employers and even casual acquaintances often check social media profiles to gain insights into potential candidates or individuals they meet. In essence, your social media presence has become a digital extension of yourself, a window into your personality and values.
 
Crafting a Positive Online Persona
So, how can you ensure your social media presence reflects well on you? Here are some key tips for navigating the digital world with grace:

• Spread Positivity: Approach social media with a positive and constructive mindset. Share content that inspires, uplifts, and adds value to your followers' experiences.
• Embrace Authenticity: Don't fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others' carefully curated online personas. Stay true to your unique personality and interests.
• Clean Up Your Feed: Regularly review your past posts and photos. If you find anything outdated or potentially misleading, don't hesitate to remove it.
• Block Negativity: Social media shouldn't be a breeding ground for negativity. Don't be afraid to block users who spread negativity or engage in online bullying.
• Seek Trusted Feedback: Consider asking close friends or family members to review your social media profiles for any content that might be perceived poorly.
• Disconnect to Reconnect: While social media offers valuable connections, excessive screen time can be detrimental. Make a conscious effort to limit your social media usage and prioritize real-life interactions.
• Vent Offline: Social media isn't a therapy session. If you're having a rough day, confide in a trusted friend or family member instead of airing your frustrations online.

 
Conclusion
By following these tips and fostering a positive online presence, you can ensure your social media persona reflects your best self. Remember, good digital etiquette is an essential part of modern manners. It demonstrates respect for yourself and others, creating a positive and professional first impression in today's online-driven world.

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Regina Titelius PerthNow, January 13, 2019 12:42PM

Renewed fascination with the royals is inspiring West Aussie women to get etiquette training. Class enrolments are up since Meghan Markle took royal lessons before getting hitched to Harry. Perth etiquette expert Elizabeth Soos runs “how to be a duchess” classes, which include lessons on proper manners and protocols.

Her pupils include Germaine Koh, of Fremantle, who said she felt outside her comfort zone at high-end cocktail events a few years ago for her fiancé’s work in Monaco, Italy and London.“ I felt really uncomfortable because the level of etiquette at the posh places we went to, particularly in Monaco, was beyond anything I had come across before,” Mrs Koh said. Not only has she learnt the high tea rules of engagement and other palatial requirements, but the Singaporean-born woman, who is stepping into real estate, was schooled on how to make the best first impression. 

​Armed with the training and a new wedding band, Mrs Koh was ready to mingle with the Hermes bag clique when she again accompanied her new husband for overseas functions late last year. “I was so much more confident at these events compared to my previous trips, I just wish I had done the duchess course sooner,” she said. “To know the proper etiquette is good for everyone, it shows respect to your partner, respect to business. It’s not only a matter of my husband making a good impression but also for partners.” 

Ms Soos said the royal wedding had helped return etiquette to the spotlight. She said Meghan had gone through a phenomenal transformation in a short period, with royal watchers noting her improvements in how she curtsied and interacted with other family members and the public. “People might think etiquette sounds old fashioned and they think of Queen Victoria or young Queen Elizabeth but etiquette is respect for other people and it goes back to treating people how you would want to be treated,” Ms Soos said.

10 Steps To Be Like The Dutchess
1. A curtsy is a small bob not a swan dive.
2. When the Queen speaks to you, then it will be your time to speak.
3. At state functions wear your tiara to identify you as part of the family.
4. Start your meal when the Queen starts her meal and finish your meal when Her Majesty finishes.
5. Speak to the person to your left side during the first course. During the main course, speak to the guest at your right side. Never the person opposite.
6. At afternoon tea, use your fingers for all foods, except patisseries when you will use a fork.
7. Offer tea, sugar and milk before serving yourself.
8. Hold the teacup correctly by pinching the cup handle. Never slurp.
9. Do not stir the cup of tea like a washing machine, but by using a 6-12 motion.
10. When giving a social card, use hands on each corner with the words facing the recipient.

Article Published In: The West Australian